Saturday, December 29, 2007

Happy-to-be-leaving-India New Year!

I can't believe that 2008 is just around the corner. Tonight we leave India (whew...finally!) on a red-eye to Kuala Lumpur. Hello Malyasia! I have to admit I'm barely able to contain my excitement to depart this crazy country. I never once thought for a second that India would be easy, but lately, I've found myself missing China. That says a lot! Of course, I haven't had a chance to share my thoughts on China here yet, but when I do, you'll understand why it's pretty nuts for me to make the statement I just did.

Bodh Gaya, as you know if you read my previous blog, was amazing, spiritual, insane, sad, dirty, noisy, and enlightening all at the same time. On the morning we left, we endured a 5:30am wild auto rickshaw ride in the dark at the hands of two young Indian punks who drove as if they were characters in a video game. I honestly wasn't sure if we'd arrive at the train station in one piece. Luckily we did, and were pleased to see our train pull into the station on time at 6:25am.

We were looking at a 13-hour ride to Agra in a 2nd-class sleeper car. Sounded doable, except we weren't expecting to sit on the track after lunch in the middle of nowhere for 2.5 hours (this part of India runs on a single track, so apparently you have to wait for passing trains a lot of the time); or have endless cockroaches crawling over our seats and up the walls for the bulk of the journey; or be visited several times by a mouse, let alone experience the nasty personal habits that most Indians exhibit in public without reservation (hacking, spitting, loud talking, vocal belching, slurpy eating). That aside, the mouse didn't bother me too much (remember I'm a former pet rat owner) but the roaches made my skin crawl. No, they gave me a full-blown panic attack. Add to that continued delays along the way, and needless to say, David and I pulled into Agra bleary-eyed and at our wits' ends at 12:15 the next morning. Ugh! Those are 18 hours that we won't forget too soon but surely were happy to put behind us.

Agra is a pit of a city, with dirty old streets and funky little hamlets surrounding one of the most famous, pristine sites in the world. Hard to believe this is home to the Taj Mahal. We enjoyed our visit to the architectural marvel, but to be honest, I thought the place was a bit overhyped, and the drizzling rain didn't help much either. The money shots with blue sky behind that pearly white just aren't there. We toured the cool fort the next day, checked out the view of the Taj from across the river (haze prevented us from seeing too clearly), and had a nice dinner and good chat with two Indian brothers at their local restaurant. Our hotel was run by a bunch of cheats and scammers, but at least our room was clean. (Sadly, that theme will repeat itself throughout the rest of our time in India.) Things were, dare I say it, looking up.

The next morning a driver picked us up at 7:00am, and we embarked on our two-week road tour of Rajasthan. In 14 days we visited Jaipur, Bikaner, Jaisalmer, Jodhpur, Rohet, Ranakhpur, Udaipur, Bundi, and Ranthambore National Park. Whew! We didn't see any tigers (for which the latter is famous...bummer!), but we did take in a heck of a lot of old forts, museums, city palaces, ancient towns, desert sand, crazy highways (if you can call them that), good food, and yummy masala chai. Hey, we even slurped opium (no joke!) with the local Rajasthani villagers and smoked a bidi (hand-rolled Indian tobacco). That was a fun day. (Don't worry, mom...the opium, when filtered down as a liquid and drunk, merely creates a stimulating sensation, unlike the smoked version, which can really mess with your head.)

We had mixed feelings about our tour. Our driver was lazy, uninspired, constantly lost, and pretty lame. Nevertheless, we made the best of it. A highlight of the journey was a camel ride on the dunes outside of Jaisalmer, just a stone's throw from Pakistan and really out in the middle of nowhere. We watched the sun set over the desert, got our camel driver to run Michael Jackson (our camel) a few times (which was really fun and bouncy), and spent the night at a "luxury" tent resort that was everything I'd hoped our African tent camp safari experience would be but wasn't. Apparently $132 a night buys a lot more in India. We enjoyed several hours of Rajasthani music and dancing; snacks and drinks around the campfire; a huge yummy vegetarian buffet; and a delightfully comfy night of rest in our cozy deluxe tent complete with stone-floored bathroom, Western toilet/shower, and tasteful furnishings in the bedroom. Too bad bliss only reigned for one night.

Cockroaches in our room in Jodhpur forced us to change hotels, only to endure an even dirtier experience at the next dump the local agent ushered us into. Given that it was 10:30pm by the time we'd unpacked, we really had no choice but to hunker down for the night, demand a sheet change, and try our best to ignore the last guest's cigarette butts and body hairs in our bathroom. Lovely. Luckily the next morning, we stood firm with the local agent and demanded to be moved to yet another hotel. After 10 minutes of arguing with him (these businessmen love to lie to you), he had our driver take us to a lovely heritage hotel with beautiful gardens, a great room, amazing dining, and the nicest hotel manager we've met since we arrived in India. We were furious to learn that this great place cost only 100 rupees more than either of the dumps we'd been booked into the night before. They say anything is possible in India, but you sure have to fight hard to get it.

We spent Christmas Eve in the lakeside town of Udaipur, where we met a great German couple named Joe and Sylvia, who were on a similar road trip of their own ripe with problems and hassles. We drank beer together on a rooftop guesthouse restaurant, admired the city palace aglow in evening lights, and shared war stories about our travels thus far. It was a nice way to spend a holiday evening away from home. Too bad our hotel was filled with Indian families who like to leave their room doors open, shout across the hallways to one another, and let their children run amok through the marble-tiled courtyards. That's something about this culture that I really won't miss nor ever really understand. We managed to eek out a decent night's sleep despite the ruckus.

Christmas Day was less eventful and pretty dreary in the small funky town of Bundi, but as fate would have it, we ran into Joe and Sylvia again and had the pleasure of their company at yet another rooftop guesthouse restaurant with an amazing view of the old palace just above us. Another German guy joined us, and our table of five made for a nice holiday celebration. We called our parents afterwards, which made us both insanely homesick but also super happy, then called it a night. No visit from Santa; just a spooky walk out of the old city in the pitch black with no auto rickshaws in sight. We finally found one and were amazed at how eerily quiet India can be when everyone goes home for the night. Just you and the homeless dogs and the endless cows patrolling the streets.

And as I mentioned at the beginning, no tigers! But we did see Asia's largest antelope (the blue bull), a ton of Indian deer, wild boar, a mongoose, monkeys, and lots of cool birds. Save for the drunken hotel managers (who again lied to us like most hotel staff here), we had a decent stay in Ranthambore for two nights before catching an express train back to Delhi. That experience in chair class was much better than our roach-ridden slow train to Agra. Too bad they only offer chair class on a handful of Indian trains. It's a much more civilized way to travel for sure.

Back in Delhi we met with our travel agent and spent several hours sharing our woes. He was pleasant enough, but again, this is India, and he's only so sympathetic to our cause. We had reserved a room last month at a great little hotel in Karol Bagh, the main shopping district, and were happy to see the friendly face of the front desk manager, who remembered us from our August visit. After a quick nap, we struck out for a beer at a local bar we'd seen last time we were in town but never visited, and discovered a hidden little gem. I realized how long it'd been since I'd eaten anything other than chapati and paneer butter masala, or heard Western music, or had readily accessible cold beer, or been greeted by a smiling face at the door. We grubbed on tasty Chinese food, laughed with the restaurant manager, and had a real hot fudge sundae of all things. Rock on, Jade Garden!

But wait! Did I mention the leering men? How could I forget? As a woman, I'm a huge target for ogling, despite wearing baggy blouses, scarves, and no makeup when I go out. But Rajasthan proved really disgusting on this front. I can understand in small villages that many of the people have seen few white folk, but honestly, could you be more obvious about staring at me all of the time, people? Or ignoring the concept of personal space? Or treating me like some animal at the zoo? Unfortunately my tactic of staring back just as blatantly fazed none of them. They just continued to gaze at me with these disturbed, odd, longing looks on their faces. David tried to block and cover but couldn't keep up the game all of the time. After a while, it wears you out to the point where the four walls of your hotel room become more pleasing than sightseeing for the day. Sad but true.

Despite the endless hassles, lies, dirt, poverty, and constant noise, I have mixed emotions about leaving India. There are some truly beautiful, kind people here. There are some amazing historical sites. There are places of seriously holy worship. And dare I say there's almost a method to the madness that goes on here day after day. India really is like no other place on Earth, and I'm glad to have had the chance to experience it. But ironically, I've felt most at peace when surrounded by influences of another culture.

It's in India that I walked in the Buddha's footsteps, toured the hillside community of the Dalai Lama, and got a blessing from the second most powerful Tibetan in the world. Interestingly enough, I'm writing this post from an Internet cafe in Delhi's Tibetan Refugee Camp. In fact, I'm surrounded by Tibetans as I type this, and David is listening to a Tibetan CD we just bought here. We'd discovered this singer while in Lhasa but could never find his album in any of the shops there. It took 10 seconds for a Tibetan woman to locate it on the shelf of a music kiosk here, and five seconds for us to buy it.

And that woman...Yangchen...the reason we're here on our last day, and a really heartwarming story. A few hours after we'd boarded the train from hell in Gaya, I realized that I'd left behind at our guesthouse my new silk mala beads pouch (which I'd just bought the day before at a Tibetan meditation center in Bodh Gaya) and cherished bracelet from Swayambunath temple in Nepal. Doing my best to practice non-attachment as a good Buddhist would, I tried to talk through the missing of these items, the lack of importance they held in the grand scheme of my life, and remind myself that I was lucky and happy to be alive and in one piece, yada, yada, yada. It worked for a while, but then the basic sadness of loss returned.

Later the next day in Agra, I emailed the hotel in Bodh Gaya and asked if there was any way they'd be able to mail the items to my hotel in Delhi. I wasn't expecting much, and I didn't even know if they'd found them in our room, if they'd been stolen, etc. I didn't hear back from the hotel until a week later, and to my surprise, one of the front desk guys we'd befriended wrote back apologizing for his delay in responding. He said they'd been really busy lately but were sending my items back to Delhi on December 24 with a girl who lived at the Tibetan Refugee Camp there. I could pick them up when I arrived back in the city. I was ecstatic. Non-attachment flew out the window. I had a chance to get back some cherished little things that held good spiritual energy for me. I was thrilled!

And that's how we came to be where we are right now. Grateful to have seen a mere speck of this huge crazy nation but excited to move on. Inspired by many of the people we've met but worn out by the actions of others. Moved to tears by the poverty of many but enlightened by the compassion of a cherished few. As the new year approaches, I have much to be thankful for and many things to look forward to. I can only hope that 2008 brings a fraction of the many blessings and wild experiences to which we've been privy so far. This global journey may be more than half over for us, but I know there are many great things yet to come.

Wishing you a year filled with peace, happiness, and open-minded heartfelt bliss!

Friday, December 07, 2007

In the Footsteps of the Buddha

While I acknowledge that I'm terribly behind on this beloved blog 'o mine, I feel compelled to fast forward us all a few months to the present day and place. Bodh Gaya, Bihar, India. The poorest and most lawless state in the country. We are surrounded by dust-filled streets, extreme poverty, snotty-nosed dirty begging kids everywhere you look. Cows (and their endless piles of shit), goats, buffaloes, and wild pigs roam the streets. Packs of seriously mangy dogs howl throughout the night. Scantily-clad children cry and wail throughout the day. Ancient grandmothers squat in the streets and wave beggars' bowls in your face. Polio-ridden people with severe deformities crawl along the ground asking for help. It's not a pretty sight, so why, might you ask, have we braved a scummy three-hour train ride from the more tourist-friendly (yet still crazy) enclave of Varanasi to subject ourselves to this madness?

The answer is quite simple, but it's one that might amaze you. It's here that, 2,600 years ago, Siddhartha Gautama found enlightenment under the bodhi tree and became known from that point on as the Buddha. The Mahabodhi Temple where this all happened became a UNESCO World Heritage Site in 2002, and Bodh Gaya now yearly welcomes thousands of pilgrims (many of them Tibetan) who flock here from October to March to pay homage to this holy religion.

Monks of all ages, sexes, races, and colors abound. They sit snuggly in pairs atop bicycle rickshaws, pile out in masses from rusty auto rickshaws, share space with us at Internet cafes checking their email (so Western of them!), and a few even ride their own bikes, sporting hip sunglasses and talking on cell phones as they go. It's an odd sight to see, but a comforting one as well.

Amid all this "monk-y business," as we call it, shiny new tour buses (so out of place in India!) shuttle smartly dressed Thai, Japanese, Korean, and Chinese tourists to the endless plethora of temples. A few daring Westerners (including us) brave the noisy, dirty streets on foot. It's hard to believe such peace and spirituality exist amid such squalor. We're continually amazed by what our eyes take in and our minds find so difficult to process. The entire scene is a canvas of contrasts, and we are but a few of the subjects roaming among it struggling to find a glimmer of hope in a desperate spot on the map.

I knew India would be hard, but I don't think I expected what we've come to experience this past week. Varanasi was quite tame, despite its reputation. Perhaps that's because we'd spent all of November in Nepal, which I call "India light." Nepal seems a bit more civilized and certainly less crowded. We'd endured an afternoon in Kathmandu at Pashupati, the holiest Hindu temple in the country, and witnessed body upon body burning atop cremation pyres. You know that horrible smell when a few rogue hairs get caught in the blow dryer? Multiply that by about 1,000, and that's Pashupati. The Nepalese think nothing of it, but it's certainly a shock to the Westerner's mentality. Oddly serene despite the main event, that area prepared us well for Varanasi's burning ghats. We barely blinked an eye as we passed by a flaming mass one afternoon, and I clearly could make out the face and head of a charred human being. We didn't stay long.

Our three days in Varanasi were enjoyable, save for me getting sick on the second night, a massive sinus infection that I'm still battling. I can't seem to stay healthy on this leg of our journey, having just recovered in mid-November from a nasty cold in Nepal that even delayed our trek by a few days. After eight miserable days suffering here in India, I have succumbed to antibiotics and reluctantly am putting my faith in Western medicine. The salt water snorting and disgusting grapefruit seed extract just weren't able to complete the job.

Sometimes on this trip, we've been left with no other choice but to turn to the hard drugs, which is
a serious challenge to our holistic views. We felt a low point the other day in Bodh Gaya when we purchased paper face masks, akin to the type surgeons wear on duty. The dust, dirt, and pollution here is overwhelming, and we're not alone when we wander the streets with masks on now. Just about every monk and tourist in the know sport them.

So back to Varanasi. We strolled along the famous Ganges, took in more crazy sights than we can process, and David even got his hand on a cricket bat, smacking his first pitch out of the "ballpark." The local kids cheered him on quite loudly, and we had a good laugh. We almost got run down by mad cows in the dark alleys; Molly got a tika from a funky sadhu at the Golden Temple; we watched a man grab a feather from a dirty street and jam it excitedly in his ear (Q-tips anyone?); we tried the local raw water chestnuts (and didn't get sick!) from the street market while rats roamed around the vendor's feet; and perhaps in our most daunting feat, survived the one-hour cab ride from the airport into town despite a non-working horn in the taxi and a seriously snarky young driver who tried to literally take us for a wild ride. David quickly told him he was messing with the wrong people. I chuckled. At first we enjoyed the serenity of no honking, but we quickly realized that despite being peaceful, it's downright dangerous in this country. I couldn't help but laugh, though, as we puttered along at a snail's pace behind bicycle rickshaws we couldn't pass because our driver couldn't hoot them out of his way. He would pound on the steering wheel in frustration while David and I just smiled slyly from the back seat of the cushy Ambassador.

We spent our last day there in Sarnath, where the Buddha gave his first sermon after attaining enlightenment. Who woulda thunk all this cool stuff happened here in this dust bowl of a region? You really do have to see it to believe it. We toured a few historic sites, wandered around the zoo (which sadly consists of a few scaly, near-death crocodiles and some small caged birds), strolled through a local village among plenty of staring faces, ate a decent late lunch at a local restaurant, prayed at the Tibetan temple, and yes, yet again, David managed to get in on a local cricket game, this one transpiring in the front yard of a Thai temple, much to the delight of a squealing gang of local boys. Baseball season might be over, but the spirit lives on in my dear husband.

Now on to Bodh Gaya. We braved our first Indian train ride and felt lucky that the Purattasham Express was only 35 minutes late that day. Other trains were three, four, or even seven hours delayed. Egads! And to think that only the day after we rode that slow boat to Gaya, masked bandits robbed that exact train on the exact leg we were on, and stabbed several people in the process of stealing their possessions. We've been told that our return trip from Gaya to Agra on Dec. 11 is on a safe section of railway, but I'll believe it when I'm happily sipping masala chai in front of the famed Taj Mahal. Please wish us luck.

We were crammed into 3AC, the cheapest class, with a seriously gross Russian couple who couldn't keep their hands off each other, and two Indian men who insisted on carrying on a cross-compartment conversation with another guy who perched on someone else's bunk across the aisle. The result was non-stop Hindi chatter for three hours and disgusting public displays of affection from a few skanky Slavs. Thank God we were only on board for a short while.

We quickly found an auto rickshaw to transport us the 30 minutes to Bodh Gaya but were dismayed when the driver took off with seven of his closest friends hanging all over the vehicle. We made three stops along the way to drop off and pick up more unannounced Indians. When we got to the guesthouse we'd requested, we found two local guys who spoke enough English to let our driver know in no uncertain terms that we weren't going to pay the agreed 100 rupees to play public taxi for the afternoon. He could either take our generous donation of 50 rupees, or call it a day: We weren't going along with the scam. After a few rounds of raised voices back and forth, he cracked a smile and accepted the grungy bill David handed him.

The guesthouse proved nightmarish, as the construction both inside and out that was promised to halt by 5:00pm was still going strong at 8:30 that night. As I was sick, I dearly needed my sleep, and David had to ask the manager three times to cut the band saws and hammering. Luckily we'd found a better guesthouse before dinner, and planned to move there the next morning. By some strange twist of fate, the manager of the offending place agreed with us the next morning that we shouldn't have to pay full price and that he wasn't honest when we checked in. To our surprise, he even gave us a conciliatory "sorry" on our way out. That's a first in India. People here rarely like to admit when they don't know something, or they've made a mistake, or both. We felt victorious in more ways than just our wallet.

We love, love, love the Mahayana Hotel where we're currently holed up for the week. Run by Tibetans, it's a pretty decent abode as far as Indian standards go, and has the added blessing of hosting many famous monks and lamas over the years. I believe it was even blessed by the Dalai Lama himself and is named after the sect of Tibetan Buddhism that His Holiness follows. We feel at home in this place and have befriended the kind front desk staff during our stay. There are usually a few monks hanging around the lobby when we retire for the evening, which is a nice way to retire each night.

We spend our days sleeping late, touring the endless temples (just about every country with a Buddhist culture has at least one temple here), sitting in meditation, sketching and writing in the shadow of the famed Bodhi tree, and even getting a blessing from one of the most revered Tibetan lamas, His Holiness the Seventeenth Gyalwa Karmapa, Ogyen Trinley Dorje, who happens to be here in Bodh Gaya for several months. We had planned to visit him in Dharamsala a few months ago but ran out of time, so we consider his presence here to be most auspicious. He's intensely connected to the Dalai Lama and bravely managed to escape in 2000 from Tibet to India when he was only 14 years old.

Despite being very interested in Buddhism, I had no idea what this lama looked like or how such a blessing by him would be bestowed, so when our turn came to offer our kata (white scarf) to the monks, I handed it over to the first monk in line, who placed it around my neck. I then bypassed the money-donation-receiving monk (no offense intended but we just weren't in a rupee-giving mood that day) and was then handed a red silk cord by another monk. Thinking these guys had to be the assistants and I still had more to go in the "ceremony," I trotted off in search of a more ancient-looking, austere holy man. To my dismay, I was ushered downstairs with the rest of the common folk, and I emerged dejected on the lawn to find David. Still wondering what had just transpired, I asked him, "Which one was the main guy? Did I miss something? What just happened in there?" David shrugged and figured we must have had an unknowing moment of sublime spiritual attention showered upon us. I was still confused, though. "Who was the holy man? Maybe he's not here today. Maybe those guys were just stand-ins?" Untrue to my Buddhist self, I figured there had to be more bells and whistles associated with this blessing thing.

We walked back to town, still perplexed but treasuring the holy red cord around my neck and my now-blessed kata. We stumbled upon the Burmese temple on our way back and decided to leave our katas there upon the Buddha in offering to a country that could use a few blessings these days. When we got back to the hotel, our beloved front desk friends asked for my help in editing an English announcement they were making about the Karmapa's public appearance the following day. Seeing this as a perfect entry into asking a most embarrassing question, I shyly said to one of the Tibetans, "You know, we got a blessing today from His Holiness, but I'm not sure which guy he was." The man just shook his head and laughed. "You don't know what the Karmapa looks like?" No, I replied sheepishly. I assumed he was rather old. "No, he's quite young, in fact, with glasses." Ah, so that was him, I mused.

I think now, in reviewing the website above, that the monk who placed the kata around my neck is indeed one of the most holy Buddhists alive today. Sadly, I wasn't very present during the entire five-second event, but today I'm much more at peace with the experience. Bodh Gaya has a way of doing that to a person: Putting you in a place of serious introspection, allowing divine wisdom and grace to take over when the most human of efforts fails. It's okay that I was blessed but didn't recognize the blessing. It's okay that I'm now wearing that shiny red cord as a bracelet because it's more at home there than dangling around my neck. It's okay that I haven't completely arrived on my path to enlightenment. In fact, I have a long, long way to go.

I still have much work to do on this planet, and Bodh Gaya is just one more stop along the journey. Albeit, it's probably the most amazing destination (save for Lhasa) in which I've ever plopped myself down. Perhaps I'll catch a glimpse of the Karmapa on the street today. It could happen; his sister walked out of our hotel lobby this morning in my presence, and now I at least have an idea of what he looks like. As the locals all like to remind us, "Anything is possible in India."

Friday, November 02, 2007

From Addis to Amritsar to Ayutthaya...

Well, at the risk of being even more behind in this neglected blog, I figured I owed everyone at least a recap of the last several months before bringing you up to current speed. As it stands, I'll still have a few more posts to add before I can join you in real time now, but I guess this is better than nothing. It's amazing how tough it is to find time or space to write in some of the places we've been lately.

Back in late July, we said a tearful goodbye to Kenya after a surprisingly wonderful month there, and headed a bit reluctantly to Ethiopia. We weren't expecting much, and that was a good thing. Despite reports that Addis Ababa was on the rise, it's still a depressingly dreary, backwards, dust- and poverty-ridden city. I sadly doubt that will change for many years to come.

We'd braved a trip to Ethiopia with the express purpose of doing the northern tourist circuit, which includes stops in Bahir Dar, Gonder, and Lalibela, the latter known for its famous 13-century rock-hewn churches. Sadly, after several frustrating visits to Ethiopian Airlines, the only carrier for these towns, we discovered it would take a total of seven flights on small planes to make this circuit doable. To get to Lalibela, the most desired on our list, we'd have to stop twice in the former two places. Didn't sound like a fun or safe way to travel, and taking a bus overland was even riskier: Unsafe and two days to reach a destination not so far away...ugh. So we made the tough decision to skip these destinations, save our sanity, try to make the best of Addis, and leave early for India. (The fact that we have no pictures to show from our week in Ethiopia says a lot: It honestly felt too risky to wander the streets with a camera around our necks.)

A few nice surprises cropped up in this strange city. We treated ourselves to an afternoon at a really nice day spa, of all things, getting our first massages in four months. David also got a much-needed haircut, and I got a much-needed pedicure. That was nice, albeit a big Western-style "splurge." Then we ate early dinner at a very Western cafe that rocked (our first real sandwich in four months, with chicken salad, ricotta, and caramelized onions...go figure). Of course, that delightful experience was quickly relegated to the past as we awoke the next day, braved the crowds at Ethiopian Airlines, re-ticketed to leave early, and then took our first minibus (where you ride for 15 cents with about 12-14 other Ethiopians) to the outdoor Merkato, supposedly the largest in Africa. Let me tell you, THAT is an experience like no other...makes Cairo look like NYC. We lasted about an hour before two attempted pickpocketings - including one guy who grabbed my arm 10x harder than any angry parent ever would - sent us in search of a minivan out of there. I screamed at the guy and he ran off, but it was wacky. Similar to Marrakech, when the dancing hawker whacked me on the arm with a big tin plate. That hurt, too.

But we survived to tell about it. I pet a goat, smiled at a few donkeys, made it through massive amounts of mud and rocks and water without slipping, and managed to find a minibus back to the general proximity of our hotel, where we proceeded to fight with the front desk about our checkout date. Sorted that out finally, but even so, the place is pretty dingy and you'd probably want plastic on the chairs in the room before you sit down, but hey...this is Ethiopia. About 10 years ago everyone here was either killing each other or starving or both, so you can't ask for much.

I am weary, though...weary of the looks, the lack of smiles, the poverty, the dirt, the funky food that makes my system upset, the misunderstandings, the lack of belief in the concept that the customer is always right...and somehow, I think things will get better in India. I fear I'm in for a big surprise.


But oh, how Delhi delighted us in so many ways! Despite being bleary eyed after another lovely red eye, we alit in Delhi around 8am and were kindly greeted by a driver from our hotel, who shuffled us into the cushy back seat of an old Ambassador, and off we went. WE LOVE IT HERE! It's a mix of the urban development of Bangkok (yes, you read that correctly) and the crazy, colonial character of Hanoi. Our hotel is great and in the heart of the Karol Bagh district, which is the main shopping area: Think street vendors and tons of little shops, and it's ALWAYS chaotic except in early morning when things are shut down. But it's HONK, HONK, HONK even if there's nothing to honk at.

That said, we really enjoyed it. A nice breath of fresh air (literally, if you can believe that) from
East Africa. That shows you how backwards things were there (even in Kenya, despite our love of the country). We ended up (long story) meeting a tour agent, who booked us a driver and car for a 16-day tour of Himachal Pradesh and Punjab states. As an added bonus for our booking, he gave us a free day tour of Delhi by private car. We saw great sights and got a good introduction to this massive sprawling city. The next day we ventured out on our own via the subway to the old quarter, and what a change! This is the India I've read about...packed dusty streets full of rickshaws and vendors, people scrambling every which way, dark alleys beckoning you in. A visit to the Red Fort rounded out that experience.

On the way to a restaurant near our hotel one night (where we ate dinner like kings for a total of $3.50!), we found a homeless mama dog with about eight brand-new puppies curled up in a disgusting park. I got my rescue hat on, and we found a department store (yes!) and got them to give us a large box for the dog. We then figured she needed food and water, so we went to the nearby McDonald's (double yes) and ordered two chicken burgers (remember they don't serve beef here) for only $1 total, and got two free cups of water to go with it...score! We then took this all back to the mama dog, who was scared but thrilled. We got quite a few looks from the locals, but then it was almost dark so we left. But oddly, the box, the dog, and all the puppies were gone the next day, so we're a little worried that someone did something bad, but at least we did what we could.

Leaving Delhi was a serious trip in itself. In 16 days we explored the Himachal Pradesh hill towns of Shimla, Manali, McLeod Ganj (just outside Dharamsala and home to the Dalai Lama), and Dalhousie, and then ventured west to glorious Amritsar in Punjab, home to the famous Sikh Golden Temple. Too much transpired on that journey to include in this blog, so you'll just have to wait for the book. :-) We thoroughly enjoyed all of the locations and had a lot of great days just exploring and soaking up the local cultures. McLeod Ganj is a huge Tibetan refugee outpost, and our few hours spent at the Tibetan Children's Village there were a highlight of the entire journey. Sadly the Dalai Lama was teaching in Ladakh and not in residence, but I'm committed to getting an audience with him one of these days. Also sitting during prayer inside Amritsar's Golden Temple on the pond was extremely spiritual. So many beautiful colors and sounds whirling around in there.

We bid India a short goodbye (knowing we'd return in late November for a month or so) and headed out on yet another red eye, this time to our favorite SE Asian city: Bangkok, baby! We arrived safely and were so happy to be back. It's very refreshing and a bit eerie to be transported to such an exotic, faraway place that feels like home. I guess we really are world travelers, especially when you consider that the hotel where we'd stayed in Jan. '06 had reserved the exact same room we had 1.5 years ago and even still had us in their system with our old address. Too funny! When we first came to Bangkok in Nov. '05, we hated it: The smells, the traffic, the pollution, the heat, the sounds. But after having been in places like Cairo and Addis, this wacky city now takes on an angelic sort of glow.

In our first seven hours back in the Land of Smiles, we lived a complete deja vu. We'd just walked a few blocks down Silom Rd. near our hotel, and I said, "Hey, there's where I got my pedicure last year, that's where you got your haircut, there's our 7/11, I remember that front desk guy, etc." Too funny! Little comforts like that go a long way after where we've been lately.

Having done the typical tourist circuit last time we visited, we opted to chill out a lot this time around, often frequenting the plethora of slick, modern, fabulously air-conditioned malls complete with their massively tasty food courts, killer gelato, and multiplex cinemas. We also got our share of Thai massage almost nightly.

We did take a great day trip out to the former capital of Ayutthaya, where we rented bikes and rode around ancient temples, eating pad Thai from a street vendor and riding the 3rd-class local train with the rest of Thailand. We also took a great walking tour of the less-visited Thonburi neighborhood on the other side of the Chao Praya River. We toured a great temple there where we fed fish and turtles hunks of funky sausage on sticks, then sat at another temple in front of the largest golden Buddha I've seen to date. I never tire of watching Thailand's saffron-clad monks wandering the streets or sharing a standing-room only space with me on the ferry boats that ply the river.

Next stop was China: Were we prepared for the Communist land of long-lost Mao? The endless coughing and street spitting? The throngs of people? The Szechwan food that burns your lips? The world's dirtiest public toilets? Only time would tell...

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

My True Calling

Back in Nairobi after safari, we contemplated our next move. We were feeling the draw toward the coast and longed to explore Kenya's beaches. We'd heard Lamu was nice but expensive; Malindi pretty but overrun with Westerners; and Mombasa more developed and touristy. After several trips to a travel agent we'd befriended downtown, we still weren't sure it was the "vacation" we wanted. (Is there such a thing as "vacation" when you're traveling for this long? I think not...but I digress.)

After several meetings in Henry's agency, we'd narrowed it down to several Mombasa beach resorts for an 11-day adventure due to cost and travel considerations. Lamu was proving to be expensive to fly, Zanzibar followed as a close second in this regard, and thus Mombasa became the buzz word. But something wasn't really jiving with me about it.

A few weeks earlier I'd caught wind, thanks to Lonely Planet's Thorn Tree forum, of a volunteer center named Takatifu Gardens operating in remote western Kenya. The place was run by Quakers who'd built a community center in a small village near Kakamega, and were looking for people to come help them teach English in primary schools. They also did work with a nearby orphanage. The opportunity sounded challenging, low-maintenance, and just what David and I had envisioned for part of our time in Africa. We'd left the States with a goal to put ourselves to good use in countries that needed it most. No one could argue that Kenya was one of those places.

I had emailed Fran, one of the leaders of the center, and started my inquiry before we'd even arrived in the country. Were there a lot of bugs? What was the toilet situation? How would we get there? How much did it cost? What exactly would we be doing with the kids? My questions were lengthy, but Fran proved diplomatic and even downright nice from the get go. I thought this might be the perfect opportunity for us to put ourselves to really good use in a country that desperately needed our help.

As the days wore on, and we grew weary of Nairobi, David could sense the debate running rampant in my head. We would leave Henry's office after another round of discussions on the best poolside offerings and resort packages in Mombasa, and try as I might, I couldn't really embrace the idea of luxuriating on a beach. "I can tell your heart isn't in it, honey," said my astute husband. "You want to go to Takatifu, right?" He'd nailed it on the head, known it all along, but he could see the fear in my eyes. "It's the bus ride that's holding you back, huh?" Yep, I nodded, a big lump in my throat.

Who wouldn't be a bit gun shy after enduring a week plus on Kenya's dusty, bumpy, mostly unpaved roads? We'd been back four days from safari, and my internal organs still hadn't shifted back to their original positions. We'd witnessed countless overloaded matatus (Kenya's decrepit, horribly unsafe version of the minibus) hurtling towards us in attempts to pass big rigs on crowded "highways." We'd swerved to avoid donkeys and any other creatures that wandered along the roadside. We'd been hassled several times by the ever-so-corrupt police at roadside "checkpoints." Driving in Kenya wasn't a fun or relaxing experience, and if it were that traumatic in a private safari minivan, I shuddered to envision what a public bus would be like.

Worry aside, we made the bold choice to ditch the sun and sand and instead brave the way to the countryside to put ourselves to good use for a week. I can tell you now it was the best decision I've ever made, not to mention the most rewarding experience of my life. The bus, despite being over an hour late and arriving nine hours later at our destination, wasn't so bad, but it was downright scary at times. Those crazy drivers can do unimaginable things with a rumbling large vehicle over a lot of red dirt. We were the only Westerners on board. Somehow this endeared us to our Kenyan neighbors; we got a lot of smiles and shared cookies with the kids. We befriended a local who kindly let us use his cell phone to alert Fran and his wife, Kim, of our delayed arrival.

When we arrived in Khayega near the only gas station in town (our pre-established meeting point), it had been raining for the last hour and the sun had sadly set. I can't describe what I felt as the driver pulled up to the side of the road and announced this was our drop-off point. David eeked out a small grin, I grabbed my pack and hoped for the best. We were the only white people amid a see of dark African faces along a remote rural road in even remoter western Kenya. It was pitch black outside. We felt vulnerable, and rightly so. But no sooner had we alit from the bus than Fran and Kim approached with a friendly, "Hello!" and we were whisked off to the safety of the Land Cruiser.

It's now the beginning of October while I write this entry (so far behind!), but the memory of our eight days there in July is so fresh in my mind. Our time in Shinyalu, Kenya, was awesome, life-changing, emotional, rewarding, and a thousand other adjectives I won't list here. Our Takatifu friends are Fran and Kim, a seriously nice and fun Australian couple who run the place; Ulrike, an inquisitive warm German woman; Casey, a funny outgoing dude from Texas; Karl and Rosie, a Kenyan brother and sister with the warmest smiles you've even seen; and Gidi, a Kenyan guy who never made us stop laughing.

These people are awesome, and we truly felt part of a community while we lived there. We shared meals, stories, and games together, and respected each other's quiet times. When we weren't working with the kids, we put ourselves to good use bettering the community center. I started in on weeding, which I loved despite the bugs, while David employed his art school talent to paint both door signs for our rooms and the larger project of the handicapped bathroom. I helped him out with the bathroom when I'd finished my gardening projects, and together, we put on a pretty mean three coats of what we dubbed "African cream" over the course of a few days.

On our second-to-last day there, 21 kids from an orphanage in Kakamega came to Takatifu Gardens for a day of fun. One of the little girls, Lilian, is only four but HIV positive--not uncommon in Africa but tough to swallow. You hear about these kids on Oprah or in the American news, but you don't really grasp the concept of their pain until you look at their faces and see it first-hand. This little angel has suffered so much in such a short time, and I could see it in her eyes as she sat in a chair next to me.

I watched her for a long while, a blank look on her face, until she caught sight of a group of ladies walking down the dirt road near the soccer field where we'd gone to play games (and of course, soccer!). Once the women caught sight of her, you knew something was up. They came running over smiling from ear to ear; one of the women scooped Lilian up in her arms. I asked Elizabeth, the social worker with us, what was going on. She responded that these ladies were all close friends of Lilian's mother before she died of AIDS. They recognized Lilian because she used to live in this village near the soccer field. The tears welled up in my eyes in an instant. You could feel the love pouring out from these women into this little child, and you could feel this little child light up from their hugs and kisses. Familiar faces meant so much.

It wasn't long before I witnessed another moving moment. Lilian's grandmother--poor, uneducated, and unable to care for Lilian--arrived at the soccer field. Lilian's face lit up once again as she was showered by love from a familiar person. I felt my tears coming yet again. To see this woman embrace her grandchild, knowing that she, too, had lost her own child--this child's mother--was heartbreaking and almost more than I could take. How to get through this supposedly happy day without feeling completely miserable and bogged down by the sadness of it all? It's one of the intense challenges Africa posed, and a dilemma I'll never quite understand.
Elizabeth told me that one of the orphanage's goals is to teach existing family members how to care for these children so they can stay with them for several weeks during the year. It's the orphanage's goal to keep these kids connected to whatever family remains whenever possible. For Lilian, it's a difficult task, as caring for an HIV-positive child in rural Africa presents a host of challenges. The grandmother has to be taught to give Lilian her daily meds, and to cook her meals that keep her healthy and won't upset her immune system. Tough to do when you're uneducated and live in a mud hut with no electricity and scant money.

David and I were particularly moved by the story of another boy, 10-year-old Eugene, a street kid who showed up at Takatifu one night homeless and hungry. His father had been arrested for murder, although we hear it was a fight where he hit another man, who fell and hit his head and then died as a result of his injuries. Now Eugene's village and relatives have disowned him; in western Kenya, it's customary to banish from the village the remaining relatives of a murderer. It doesn't matter that you're only 10 with nowhere to go and no one to care for you. Eugene miraculously found Takatifu, who in turn searched out this orphanage where he now lives. That's how Takatifu made the connection to Carmel, the orphanage director, who's really more of an angel than an administrative person. An aboriginal woman in her 70s from Australia, she's a true "everywoman" who's given these kids a new lease.

At the soccer field it was mostly the boys who played ball (David was in heaven, having been away from sports for so long) while the girls jumped rope. I talked forever with Carmel, and boy, did she have stories to tell. We walked back to Takatifu along the village road and got quite a few stares. But after being there all week in rural western Kenya, it didn't bother me anymore. In fact, it felt like we lived and belonged there...so cool!

We fed the kids a huge rice-and-beans-and-greens lunch, which they gobbled down, then most of them watched a movie on Fran's laptop. I went outside after a bit, and most of the girls (ages 4-12) were sitting outside bored in the sun. I went back inside to check with Casey to see if we had any art supplies. When he nodded "yes," I returned to ask the girls if they'd like to draw. The answer was a resounding YES! So I gathered up the scraps of paper I could find and the half-sharpened pencils and dying pens, and they were happy as clams. A few of the boys even joined in.

It was a sight to see, these poor kids sitting on the edge of the planter boxes in the hot African sun, using their knees and hands as bases for holding their paper, barely able to squeak ink out of the pen or pencil but creating images nonetheless. It made me think of all the excess toys and "things" most kids in the U.S. have, and I just got really emotional seeing these poor kids so appreciative of the barest of art supplies. They could teach all of us a lesson about gratitude, believe me.

I became enamored with two sisters, Rosy (7) and Stella (10), whom I was considering adopting were it not for the fact that (a) Adopting kids in Kenya is really tough, as the government is rife with corruption, extorts money from Westerners (it's supposed to cost $6,000 per child but can go as high as $50,000!), and it can take two years to sort out; (b) David would like to start with younger kids and raise them earlier, which I can understand; and (c) We are still traveling for a while, and I'm not sure where I'd stow two small Kenyan children in our backpacks. Ah, such obstacles!

I can't even begin to describe how those eight days has changed me (and us). I was so at peace in that jungle village, even despite having to shower from boiled water in a bucket; dealing with the horrible smell and dirt of pit toilets; and fighting off some bugs at times (although not many). Not to mention that life in rural Africa is, well, downright DIFFERENT!!! In hindsight, these things pale in comparison to what we received in the way of an amazing life-altering experience.

The Kenyan government only recently made primary education free. Prior to that action, most children in rural areas couldn't afford to attend school. Now with it being more accessible, schools are teeming with smiling, inquisitive kids who, for the most part, really want to learn. Sadly you also witness things such as a 15-year-old tall, skinny boy crammed into a class of little eight-year-olds, because he was never able to attend school before then and can't place into a higher class with kids his age.

It's not unusual for schools to have 750-1,200 students, with classes averaging 70 students per teacher. Top that off with the rustic conditions of the classrooms--thatched roofs, rats running around, primitive desks, and limited supplies, and you've got quite a challenge before you. In just three days we helped over 2,500 kids with their English reading...quite an accomplishment! I never tired of hearing little Kenyans read aloud, "A fat man stands to rrrub his rrribs," and smiled every time at the way they rolled their Rs with an African lilt. It was truly music to my ears.

So today, as I sit in an air-conditioned Internet cafe in Bangkok, amid the comforts of a Westernized, southeast Asian society (believe me, after where we've been these last six+ months, Bangkok is a breath of civilized fresh air), I'm reminded of our dear friends in little Shinyalu, who are with me in my heart more often than they probably know.

I miss them, I miss the friendships we made, I miss the kids, I miss being of service, and more than anything, I miss the feeling of pure bliss I experienced in finding my true calling. Save for the six-day silent meditation retreat I did several months after David and I were married, I've never felt more alive and free and in touch with my true self than when I spent those eight great days in western Kenya. Someday I will go back. And maybe we'll even adopt a child...or two...or three...

Sure as Kilimanjaro Rises...

If we were hesitant to arrive in Cairo, that anticipatory worry multiplied tenfold with our looming flight to Kenya. The bustling capital of Nairobi, or as it's commonly referred to as "Nairobbery," is a city struggling to weave its way into modernity and calm. That effort, however, is plagued by a continually corrupt government (although things have improved during Kibaki's presidential reign); close to 40 indigenous tribes struggling for power; a frightening Mungiki gang that had beheaded several bus drivers just days before our arrival; deplorable poverty in notorious slums (read more about Kibera); regular post-sunset muggings of both locals and tourists; and worst of all, an "explosion" (which we would call a bombing) on busy Moi Avenue that went off the week before we were scheduled to touch down. We almost cancelled our trip and diverted our attention to a more deserving nation, but after several days of debate and research, we decided to give Kenya a chance, despite its shady reputation.

What a delight awaited us! Sure, there's a lot for the eyes to absorb, and it wears heavy on your heart at times. But Kenya never ceased to amaze and enchant us...with its national pride, its mind boggling wildlife inventory, its lovely diverse landscapes, and most of all, its ever-friendly people. Most Kenyans speak very good English, and their calm demeanors and smiling faces won us over day after day. We spent a month here and felt grateful to have had that amount of time to devote to a much-misunderstood country. If you peel back a few gritty layers, this nation reveals a beautiful inner side probably lost on most safari-only-bound holiday makers.

We holed up in a really nice business-style hotel in the prestigious Upper Hill neighborhood for the duration of our time in Nairobi. We felt a bit luxurious, but it was worth the splurge considering the above issues I highlighted. Located down the street from the Israeli embassy, our digs were heavily guarded by armed military folks in full camo duds toting huge machine guns, not to mention multiple road checkpoints with metal gates barring vehicle entry. The hotel itself had three key card entry points before you even reached your room. The level of security was a bit absurd if you ask me, but at least we could come and go knowing we were well protected. A sign posted just down the road even bragged about the high level of protection. "Welcome to Nairobi's safest street" greeted us daily and boasted two caricatures of smiling faces (as if we needed more assurance).

We spent our first few days seeking out and interviewing safari operators, as getting out into the parks and game reserves was our main purpose for being there. Struggling with lingering food poisoning compliments of Egypt, I had a tough time enduring it all. But luckily after the first day, with an emergency bathroom stop at an office building happy to oblige me their surprisingly decent toilet, and with a few Cipro under my belt, I was on the rebound. The weather was much cooler (delightful after Luxor's sweltering heat!), which made doing business here more pleasant. After grueling hours of meetings, and recovering from the initial shock of the high cost of this kind of adventure, we settled on an outfitter and packed for our June 22 departure to Tanzania. 11 days in the bush awaited, and we were eager to go!

The shuttle bus to Arusha was an experience in itself. I don't know where I got the impression that Kenya would have four-lane paved, divided highways. I soon realized I was sadly mistaken in my expectations and that the modernity we'd enjoyed in Nairobi ended once you left the heart of the city. The drive, which was roughly 158 miles long, took almost six hours. We sat in pollution-choking traffic on the road to Mombasa, then endured pothole after pothole once we headed south to the border. Swerving to avoid donkeys, Masai herdsmen with their cattle, and numerous trucks coming head-on into our lane, our driver kept the peddle to the metal and gave us the scare of a lifetime. When we finally arrived in neighboring Tanzania, I was ready to call the whole thing off. Luckily, the trip improved dramatically from the comfort of our 4WD safari jeep and our excellent driver/guide Steven. He introduced himself with a smile, helped us load our packs into the vehicle, handed us a box lunch, and headed out for the drive to Lake Manyara.

Spotting my first giraffe and zebra from the highway is something I won't forget in this lifetime. You can see these animals in zoos (as an animal lover, I was a big fan of zoos before coming to Africa, but it just doesn't compare to watching them roam the wild landscape, plucking leaves from acacia trees or nestling each other on the plains of a volcanic crater. In lieu of the popular road trip games we play in the States, David and I quickly settled into little contests of who could spot the first critter from the jeep.

East Africa delivers big time on wildlife viewing, and we saw everything except the elusive black rhino. Considering there are no guarantees when you sign up for one of these things, I think that's pretty impressive. We spent three nights in Tanzania, taking in two game drives in Lake Manyara National Park (where, among other incredible sights, we watched a leopard in a tree devour a bush buck) and two days in the Ngorongoro Crater, which is probably one of the most amazing places on Earth. As part of the Serengeti ecosystem, the opportunities for wildlife viewing abound here, and the setting is like nothing we've ever seen.

Thousands of animals are packed into the floor of this sunken volcano, and it's really, in a nutshell, so cool. You drive down a steep dirt road into the bowl and spend hours cruising the plains amid a plethora of wildlife. We feel blessed to have watched two cheetahs stalk an impala for half an hour before setting in on the chase and the speedy kill. Watching it all transpire in a matter of seconds at close range, I can now vouch that they really are the fastest mammals on land. Earlier that day, we had squatted in disbelief to pee among a herd of onlooking zebra...how wild is that? (Our guide tentatively let us out of the jeep but warned us to stay hidden lest a park ranger spot us out in the open.) We also really enjoyed our one-night stay at the crater's wildlife lodge perched on the rim. Our room looked out on the animals grazing at night and provided insane views during daylight, plus good food and entertainment from a Tanzanian dance troupe.

We sadly bid farewell to Tanzania too soon and headed back to the Namanga border, where our Kenyan driver/guide, Felix, collected us for our next eight days. We visited Amboseli National Park (beneath the shadow of mighty Kilimanjaro), a unique tree lodge at the base of Mt. Kenya, Lake Nakuru National Park (famous for its throngs of pink flamingos), Lake Baringo, Lake Bogoria, and the infamous Masai Mara. We witnessed lions up close quite a few times; tons (literally) of elephants, zebras, and wildebeest grazing in the distance from our patio at the Ol Tukai Lodge in Amboseli; my favorite, the hippo (although not as close nor as many as I would have liked ); a teen leopard in a tree right above our minivan in Nakuru, along with incredible numbers of white rhino; quite a few giraffes, which we both love; all of the requisite antelopes save the kudu (my favorite is the topi); and plenty of other creatures as well.

It's amazing how you lose track of time out on the plains or overland for 9+ hours in a minivan. On this trip we experienced more of Kenyan transportation inefficiency than we ever care to endure again. The road between Narok and Naivasha--on the way to the famed Masai Mara and back--was particularly bad. It took us over an hour to go only 20 miles, most of it on half-dirt/half-potholed stretches of "highway," with screaming trucks whizzing by, and more dust up your nose and on your clothes than you could stomach in two lifetimes--and that with the windows closed. Sad to think that this is the main drag for big rigs carrying important cargo from Mombasa all the way into Uganda. To add insult to injury, it had rained both nights in the Mara, which is really dangerous as nothing is paved, so you're literally skidding along in a minivan (with no 4WD, mind you) hoping you don't get stuck in a mud hole or washed away in a river somewhere.

Our guide/driver was a bit daring at times. At one point in the Mara, we had to abandon the van just outside of our campsite and wade about 25 feet through some puddles and mud to the dining hut. Then the next morning, we took 1.5 hours to get out of the Mara, at times driving literally through pools of water so large they splashed over the top of the van, obscuring the entire windshield and practically flooding out the transmission. Like I said, I'm done with overland travel in Kenya if I can help it (famous last words, as you'll discover).

Several outfitters told us not to bother going the distance to the Serengeti, as we'd see the same stuff in the Masai Mara, which in hindsight was a mistake. There were hardly any animals in the Mara, and we would have preferred more time with our fun Tanzanian driver/guide. Steven was much more personable and interesting than Felix, who was more of a driver than a guide. At times this Kenyan guy had the personality and physical resemblance of Barry Bonds (think dull and aloof) coupled with the funky demeanor of Snoop Dogg (think dopey and irreverent). Hindsight, as we all know, is always 20/20.

Animals aside, two highlights of a human nature will stick with me for a long time: Having our photos taken at stunning Lake Bogoria for almost an hour with hundreds of 10- and 11-year-old wide-eyed school kids on field trip from northwestern Kenya (the opening photo of this blog); and a two-hour tour of a Masai Mara village given by the locals. Our Masai guide, Alex, knew I liked cows, so he suggested we walk back to our campsite as the young boys were taking the massive herds out to graze for the afternoon. It's an awesome experience to stand in the middle of an African field with about 200 cattle lumbering toward you amid whooping chants of tribal natives prodding them with spears. Doubt you'd see that in America any time soon.

Thus our African safari, despite being problematic at times (I've chosen to spare you the really gritty details) and ridiculously expensive, was a big success. We returned to Nairobi exhausted, inspired, and ready to take on our next challenge. Little did I know that that next adventure would be an experience that would really change my life.

P.S.--I found this paragraph from Wikipedia truly inspiring and very telling of the current issues facing Kenya, most notably in the area of education:
In November 2004, in an ABC PrimeTime interview with Peter Jennings, former US President Bill Clinton identified [President] Kibaki as the one living person he would most like to meet "because of the Kenyan government's decision to abolish school fees for primary education." Clinton added that, by providing free and compulsory primary education, what Kibaki had done would affect more lives than any president had done or would ever do by the end of the year. The free education program saw nearly 1.7 million more pupils enroll in school by the end of that year.

P.P. S.--Thanks to the iconic 80s band, Toto, for letting me (unbeknownst to them) pirate lyrics from their one-hit wonder, Africa, for use as this blog's title. I am forever indebted.